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Via Richard Wiseman’s excellent book 59 Seconds: Change Your Life in Under a Minute: As a result of the interviews, the researchers speculated that the best strategy would be to give a potential date the impression that in general you were hard to get (and therefore a scarce resource worth having) but really enthusiastic about him or her specifically.They tested this notion by using some of the same techniques…Men in the “humor” condition received phone numbers from 42.9% of the female participants and were refused 57.1% of the time.In comparison, men in the “no humor” condition were refused 84.6% of the time and were only accepted 15.4% of the time.This is best demonstrated by the concept of emotional contagion: we’re bad at telling what made us feel a certain way, but good about making associations.Feeling excited, stimulated and aroused is often associated with the people around us, even if they’re not the cause.
Establish that you’re hard to get in general — but very enthusiastic about the person you’re with.
Via Mating Intelligence Unleashed: The Role of the Mind in Sex, Dating, and Love: When women are looking for a short-term fling, however, it may be a different story.
One study conducted on college students found that women favored men for a short-term fling if they found the men attractive regardless of the content of their pickup lines.
This can be taken to extremes: having someone try to kill you can actually make you more attracted to them.
Via The Heart of Social Psychology: A Backstage View of a Passionate Science: Those in the high-fear condition did show, for example, significantly more desire to kiss my confederate (one of the key questions) and wrote more romantic and sexual content into their stories.